Choose your girlfriend like your future child has the deciding vote. Your future child does not care how pretty the women is, but cares how steady, how stable, how open, how warm, how caring, how loving, how patient, how virtuous the parent is. If you want to have kids, think about that future child. Think about that future child waking up with colic for the fourth time at night and try to figure out that the child does not care how great that that women’s calves look in high heels, does not care how many Gucci or Hermes handbags she has, doesn’t care how many Dolce Gabbana shoes she has, doesn’t care how nice her hair looks with tinted highlights, doesn’t care how well her mascara hangs from her eye lashes, doesn’t care if she has a pimple, doesn’t care whether her belly is flat, doesn’t care whether her boobs sag or not, but cares rather that the mother’s heart is a warm, accessible open harbor of peace and a future foundation of goodness, love, intimacy, and virtue.
”It’s been easier to convince people to hand over half their income, their children to war, and their freedoms in perpetuity - than to engage them in seriously considering how roads might function in the absence of taxation.”
Never, underestimate the degree to which people will scatter themselves into a deep fog in order to avoid seeing the basic realities of their own cages.
So I hadn’t yet come out to my mum and today I got home to see that someone had changed the cover on my bed to this
And then I saw that they left a note on the bed, so I went over to take a look at it and
My mum is the best
Whenever I see this I think well what if you weren’t gay and you came home one day to this
What about my gay?